Sunday, July 18, 2010

Define "Companionship" Through a Man Point of View

We have to admit this ladies...

There comes a time in our lives where we are stuck in that gray area. What gray area? You know, that gray area. The gray area we so called "dating".

Have you ever been so confused of not knowing what is going on in his head when he throws words at you that put you in that gray area...confused.

My #1 confusion that we get all the time as women...

What does he mean when he said, "I see you as a companion?"

Oh wait!! Does he really meant companion..or is it really a nicer way of calling it "friends with benefits"

Talking about emotional confusion!!

Well ladies, this one of those...I may call it tomatoes or to-matoes.

While a short percentage of guys out there do see the word "companionship" as a nicer way as a booty call...there is a still a shining of high hopes for the rest.

But don't worry women, here's something that will ease your mind:

6 out of 10 men I have spoken with do believe in such thing as "companionship". In fact, many of them believe it's a key component to a factor of picking girlfriend-material.

So if a man do see you as a companion of his...chances are, you are very important to him.

Women, please understand: Doesn't matter what type a guy your man is...he craves companionship. A lot of women do not realize that men need companionship. It's one of the important basic needs of a man. A man likes to have a woman by his side when it matters. He likes to know she is available when he needs her the most. Men doesn't want to admit it, but they crave a good woman by his side. A man is motivated when he feels trusted and respected. Trust your man to energize him! He'll give his best performance when he feels loved!

Men wants more than anything a soul mate and friend. Someone loving, caring, affectionate and tender who he can talk to have fun with. He wants someone to love him unconditionally who's there for him yet also someone who he can be there for! He wants a best friend that will laugh at his jokes, no matter how bad they are! Someone that will take an interest in the things he likes. Someone that will not try to change him, yet who will help him to improve and grow where needed. He wants someone that will trust, respect and admire him. His ideal partner will focus on his good qualities more than than his faults.