Saturday, August 21, 2010

Is predicability will kill the relationship?

Predictability is not a total bad thing. For men, especially in a long-term relationship, need a balance of predictability and surprises.

Why predictability is good. Because predictability = stability.

Men wants the stability of a woman who is strong, predictable, who's a good mother, who's passionate about what she loves, who's smart, who's a stable influence for the relationship and their future kids.

So why is a routine so crucial? Because a woman with no predictability is a woman who has no responsibility. Men want women who can pay the bill on time, who is committed to her career or her family, who is stable enough to stabilize the relationship.

Men want the appropriate ratio of predictability and surprises...they want the same goes for the bedroom activity. But I can't teach you there lol!